"In Pro Per" means that you are acting as your own attorney. You are not required to hire an attorney but before taking any legal action it is highly advisable to consult with a lawyer who can inform you about important legal rights.
An experienced attorney may be able to quickly assess your situation and highlight the best course of action to assert or protect your interests. Failure to consult with an attorney may result in unnecessary delays or costly measures in the future to remedy errors.
Attorneys are listed in the telephone book. For a small fee, you can schedule a short consultation with a private attorney by calling the Lawyer Referral Service at (650) 369-4149.
Parties who prefer to mediate their disputes can call the Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) Program at (650) 261-5075 or (650) 261-5076.
If you cannot afford an attorney, or choose to represent yourself, you should know that in San Mateo County:
- you are responsible for completing all necessary forms, filing the forms with the court and presenting your case before the Judge
- local rules permit legal forms to be neatly handwritten in blue or black ink
- all persons in pro per with family law or domestic violence matters are strongly encouraged to have his or her papers reviewed by the Family Law Facilitator before filing or presenting papers to the Judge
- in presenting your case you are expected to comply with the same legal procedures, evidence rules, and standards of practice as attorneys
All documents submitted to the court clerk for filing must also be provided to the other party; this is called "service of process". You are responsible for having someone over the age of 18 and not a party to the case, serve a copy of all documents on the other party.
Self-help books are available at your local library, law library, or book store. For family law or domestic violence matters you may also obtain further information on completing your paperwork, service and filing through the Family Law Facilitator's office. Always bring with you copies of your prior court orders and related documentation to support your case.